SHADE: Sexual Health & Disability Education

Healthy Bodies, Healthy Boundaries, Healthy Relationships

SHADE (Sexual Health & Disability Education) is more than just sex education: it is a service that teaches abuse prevention skills and empowers individuals with disabilities to live lives enriched by positive relationships. In SHADE, participants learn about topics such as boundaries and consent, online safety, healthy relationships, reproductive anatomy, and safer decision making. SHADE offers group classes and workshops as well as individualized education and counseling for people with cognitive and/or developmental disabilities. 

Group Classes

SHADE partners with schools, day programs, and disability service providers to offer FREE education classes. SHADE group classes teach skills in a fun, interactive, and social setting. Participants will learn through:

  • Discussion

  • Hands-on activities

  • Games

  • Role-play

  • Visual aids

SHADE groups typically meet once per week for 15 weeks, although groups can be modified to best suit participant needs.

One-on-One Education and Coaching

Individual SHADE sessions provide an opportunity for participants to learn and practice skills in a one-on-one setting. These sessions are best-suited for participants seeking specific relationship skill coaching and/or for participants who might benefit from individualized instruction. 

Individual Counseling

Individuals who are experiencing emotional distress related to sexual assault, sexuality, gender identity, or relationships may benefit from counseling. SHADE counseling is FREE for eligible individuals and is provided by licensed clinicians. 

Community Workshops

SHADE offers FREE training and workshops to families, support staff, teachers, clinicians, emergency responders, and other disability service providers. Past topics include:

  • Supporting healthy sexuality for people with disabilities

  • Understanding and responding to problematic sexual behavior

  • Promoting professional boundaries at work

  • And more!

Get in touch and let us know how we can support you.

Eligibility

SHADE services are FREE for eligible participants thanks to the generous support of PLB. Eligible participants must: 

  • Live in St. Louis County 

  • Have a qualifying cognitive and/or developmental disability. Proof of diagnosis or an active IEP may be required.

SHADE Curriculum

Evidence suggests that individuals who receive comprehensive sex education are less likely to be victims of abuse and are more likely to recognize and report abuse if/when it does occur. Our curriculum is designed to give participants the knowledge and skills they need to make informed decisions about their bodies, their boundaries, and their relationships.

A typical SHADE group addresses the following topics, although our curriculum can be modified to best suit participants’ needs:

  • Feelings

  • Boundaries and consent

  • Public and private

  • Social circles

  • Online safety

  • Friendship

  • Dating

  • Healthy and unhealthy relationships

  • Reproductive anatomy and hygiene

  • Sexual feelings and behaviors

  • Pregnancy and birth control

  • STIs and safer sex

  • Making informed decisions

Our curriculum is designed with people with cognitive and/or developmental disabilities in mind, and we take care to ensure that our materials are accessible and developmentally appropriate for participants. If you have further questions about our curriculum or if you would like to view any of our teaching materials, please don’t hesitate to contact us.